Is your partner starting to feel more like a roommate? We know that there are A LOT of reasons as to why you might have lost that loving feeling, but you don't have to stay trapped in that sexless marriage! or sexless relationship No, we're not telling you to leave your partner. The Amazing Clarks are here to break down how to get that spark back! Plus how do we get to the root of what caused the loss of that sexy feeling in the first place!

Mother's Day is fast approaching and Melanie has traveled back west to spend some time with her babies. That doesn't mean that doesn't mean that we can't celebrate moms while she's away! Anthony has invited his mom, Queen Jean, to the mic to get her thoughts on dating as an older woman, marriage she's had three, and what she thinks about his and Melanie's marriage. PLUS, what does Mama Jean think about needing a man at her age? Does she want to be in a relationship AND what is she hoping Anthony picks up for her for Mother's Day? Here's a hint, it comes in packs of 4, 12 or 48.

Are you currently in your Waiting Season and feeling impatient for your happily ever after? Many of us have gone through periods of waiting, which can be challenging and cause doubts about whether our time will ever come. However, what we do during this season is crucial. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks provide valuable insight into how to make the most of your waiting season while your love story is still being written. We share practical tips on how to stay positive, focused, and motivated during this time. So grab a pen and paper and take notes because there's plenty to do while waiting for your love story to unfold.

We've all been there, when you meet someone and they check every box externally. They're fine, they've got a good job, a nice place to live, they have a functional car, all of the things that make you say that this might be worth pursuing is there. Then... it happens. The connection just drops like internet in the 90s. You say something and they don't get it, or something they do just gets on you. But here's the thing...none of those things are new. You're just noticing their spirit. Spiritual love is something deeper than the surface and is what allows relationships to flourish beyond the differences. It allows you to see your partner for their full selves. Not sure what that ever means? No worries, The Amazing Clarks got you! Anthony and Melanie are ready to deep dive into everything that is spiritual love so you learn to see beyond the surface!

Have you ever gone along to just get along? You know what we mean. Agreeing to do the dishes every day for a week even though you KNOW THAT YOUVE DONE THOSE DISHES EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 13 DAYS EVEN THOUGH YOU HATE HATE DOING THE DISHES just to avoid a fight.... ok pause. We're good. Today The Amazing Clarks are breaking down compromising versus consensus. What are we as partners agreeing to without ever talking about? What do we need to do with potential partners BEFORE we commit to each other to ensure success in a relationship? There is a real difference between a compromise and a consensus and it's about time we talked about it!

Do you keep attracting the things you don't want? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees. If you've convinced yourself that online dating is trash and then go to try online dating, it's never going to work because you've convinced yourself it's trash! But it's okay! Anthony and Melanie will break down how you can fix that mindset and get you reset. Fixing your thermostat whether about dating or anything else in life is critical for anything you do in life. So let's get into it!

Do you believe in love? Not just love, but true love? Now a while back on the TikTok a video from Season 4 of Black Love Doc where Anthony Melanie shared some of their love story had the people in the comments thinking it was a set up. The energy of love is what we're here to talk about today people. There's too much cynicism around love and The Amazing Clarks are here to remind all of you, whether you're in a relationship or not, that love is here for you. Love shows up in ways that you never expect and in this episode Anthony and Melanie break down what you need to keep on the look out for to make sure you're not standing in the way of love.

Friendship, vulnerability, trust, and communication, these are the 4 components of intimacy that keep the Clarks love so strong In this episode, the Clarks break down each one of these components and explain how each relate to one another. Listen in as they discuss how vulnerability is the connector to all things intimate. By the end of this episode, you'll understand how being in an intimate, close relationship, can be an invitation to being who you really are.

There's so much more to physical touch than we think. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fifth and last love language, physical touch. Listen in as Melanie expresses how she believes the impact of Covid19 has enhanced our need for physical touch. While Anthony explains how his need for physical touch hasn't always been met. By the end of this episode, you'll better understand why it's our natural instinct to want to be touched, loved, and wanted.

We interrupt the 5 love languages to add a little spice to the mix. In this episode, the Clarks answer an important question. When is it time to commit? Well for Melanie, she knew Anthony was her's even after they broke up. So in Melanie fashion, she decided to get Anthony's named tattooed on her back side. Listen in as Melanie shares why she got this tattoo and how risk of love is worth taking. Because at the end of the day, we can't be afraid to get hurt in love.

Quality time means, when I'm with you, I'm going to be engaged with you, and present. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fourth love language, quality time. After being together for 31 years and listening to spirit and pouring into others, the Clarks learned how to be aware of others love languages. Listen in as the Clarks discuss how what's quality time for others may not be quality time for you, but sometimes it's not about you.

In this episode, the Clarks get into the third love language, receiving gifts. Ultimately we all have our top 3 love languages, however, sometimes they change due to certain events. Listen in on how Anthony realizes and reflects on how gifts was once his love language and why it changed. While Melanie expresses that she typically showers herself with gifts and how that helps her love on herself.

In this episode, the Clarks discuss the second love language that can be best described as doing something for your partner that you know they would like. Whether that'd be filling up their gas tank, watering their plants, or even cooking them a meal, it's Acts of Service. Listen in as both share how having Acts of Service as your love language, or a partner with it, can often mean giving up your time. And although it can be time consuming and exhausting, it's what you or your partner needs, and that's what makes understanding it worth the effort.

In this episode, the Clarks dig deep into the most common love languages, words of affirmation. Both express how words of affirmation are words that communicate your love, appreciation, and respect for another person. Not only does it help your partner feel a great sense of self worth but motivation as well. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony share their stories on why they like andor dislike this love language within their own relationship.

The Amazing Clarks are BACK! And they are ready to talk about everything love this month. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony discuss what the 5 Love Languages are, how they work, and how they use them to assess themselves and show love to one another.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about Melanie's recent trip back to California and how important it was for both to have some time to themselves. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to not lose yourself in love and to manage your thoughts, in order to not create fights or problems. Whether in a partnership or dating, it's okay to have time away and have individuality.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore the ego and the spirit and how in relationships we tend to filter through one or the other. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to stop reacting to each other through the filter of ego and start building a relationship with your spirit. It's about knowing which is guiding you in your partnerships. Because when you focus on love and tenderness, you'll attract love and tenderness.

How can women manage having a horny husband or partner? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore sexuality and the differences between how men and women deal with their sexual urges. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to be aware of the meanings behind your partners urges and how to give each other grace. Because when you pour into yourself enough you'll have more love and time with your partner.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore being submissive in partnership and how you don't have to submit but you can be agreeable in love and dating. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to play to your strengths and let go of the submissive mindset. Because each person has their own strengths and weaknesses, you just have to find the in between that works for the both of you.

What should you be focused on when it comes to love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks answer that question and discuss the importance of not only focusing on the me in dating and relationships but the we. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how men and women look at love differently and how this can benefit you and your partner. In order to get what you want out of love and dating, you have to stop thinking about yourselves and start thinking more about others.

Does masturbating make you feel uncomfortable? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the stigma of masturbating and how much better it can make you feel. Listen is as Melanie and Anthony share how masturbation has actually made their relationship stronger and how masturbating can actually make you attract the love you're looking for. Ultimately, masturbation shouldn't be a situation, it should be what feels good to you when you want it to feel good to you.

When something is irritating you, do you let that define your relationship? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss couples karma, further recognizing how treating one another can impact your relationship. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how irritation towards your partner is often something in yourself you don't want to look at. Although these thoughts can trigger a passionate debate, it's all an opportunity to grow. And when you become the change, greatness, and goodness that you want to see, your couple's karma will always be positive.

Are you creating rules about love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how playing games while dating isn't going to do much but hurt you in the long run. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how not playing games and just exuding confidence can help your dating life. The fine balance between not playing hard to get and not being desperate while dating will change your life drastically.

You've met the love of your life and you've decided to start a family. You're in it! You've won! Now you've got this amazing bundle of joy, but what's this? Is it...resentment? All of a sudden your sexy date nights are all night diaper duties. Your weekend getaways are Saturdays at a theme restaurant. The romance is DEAD. You hate it here, and you think you might hate your spouse for convincing you to become a parent. Alright hold up, it's time to back up. The Amazing Clarks are here to help you. You need to talk about this before it gets too late, and to be honest it's never too late. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share when they knew that they were in a bad place in their first marriages and some tips for you all if you find yourselves trapped and resentful.

Ladies, tell us if you've heard this before They say all the right things like, Baby I love you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You're the only one for me. You drop your panties, maybe you just take off your dress we're not judging. You have an incredible night of sex AYYYE. You wake up the next day to text him about how you can't wait for this next chapter and nothing. SILLENCE. Now your mama warned you about this. That some man would smooth talk you into his bed and drop you like a sack of potatoes, but he said everything you wanted to hear! Listen, you're not alone. You just fell for the Pillow Talk Trap. It happens, but the Amazing Clarks are here to make sure that you don't get caught up in the cycle of it happening over and over and over again. And guys, you don't get off easy on this either, listen in to hear why you need to stop doing this and why it seems like it's just one of those things.

Senior citizens have been getting divorced in record numbers. We're talking about people who have been together for 40, 50, and even 60 years! We know it's hard to think of Granny and Pops parting ways but look, it does happen. AND if you're older it's okay to go and find your happiness we are cheering you on! But we wouldn't be The Amazing Clarks if we didn't try to help y'all before you're older and miserable. We want you to be happy in your relationships now OR to feel empowered to leave if they are not the one! Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share what you should be on the lookout for so you can avoid being in a long marriage only to realize you're miserable and how they figured out that they were not in the right relationships for them!

Have you ever just KNOWN that you were destined to be with someone. Like you just know that that person is supposed to be your soulmate. It doesn't matter that they broke up with you ten years ago. It doesn't matter that they're dating someone else. You know that you two are meant to be! Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that you're wrong. It's time to get unstuck! The only way to find the one for you is to stop waiting for what isn't and The Amazing Clarks are here to help you through it!

Do you live your life with an E.I.P. mindset? The Clarks do. E.I.P. means Everything Is Perfect! There are no accidents and there are no mistakes when it comes to this thing called life. This is the mantra that The Clarks live by and they're here to teach you how you can adapt an E.I.P. mindset. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony discuss how E.I.P. is related to the dating world. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to reprogram your mind to be aligned with the dating experience that you want and deserve.

What happens before you get triggered? Triggers start with your mind and your thoughts and sometimes it's hard to stay consistent in life. That's what The Amazing Clarks are here for! You have to learn how to identify and get rid of your triggers yourself and learn how to stay in alignment no matter what. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share ways to change your behaviors so you can remain in a good place. What triggers might be triggering you in life and in dating that is causing you to feel down and unmotivated?

Singles! What's stopping you all from finding your love? Did you ever stop to think that it might just be.... you? We know you don't want you to be the problem but that's why we've got The Amazing Clarks here to help! Sometimes you don't even realize that you are setting yourself up for failure. It's time to right the ship and find yourself the amazing loving relationship you deserve! Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share just what might be going wrong in your love quest. What energies might you be putting into the universe that is causing your love life to stall out and what can you do to help fix it? The Amazing Clarks got you!

Have you ever told your partner or just a person you were dating that they HAD to choose? It was you or the other person? Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that EVERYONE loses when given an ultimatum. The person giving it, the person receiving it, hell even the person who caused it. Why do we fall into these ultimatum traps? Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share why we feel like we have to make the other person choose, why we need to knock it off, and what we can do instead.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about the importance of loving from your soul and loving someone else's soul. Melanie and Anthony share how trauma and bad experiences cause people to only listen to the voice of their ego, causing them to put up walls of destruction that only create physical world relationships. Listen in on how you can tell the difference between the voice of your ego and the voice of spirit, helping you to remain vulnerable, honest, and real with yourself and others.

From a global pandemic to high gas prices, the world has been pretty hard to deal with for the past couple of years. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how to navigate through the state of the world without losing your mind. Melanie and Anthony share how being aware of what you're being dripped with can help you live a fulfilling life during these trying times. Listen in on how you can redirect your energy and move yourself from anger to hope.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about their experience with having Covid. Melanie and Anthony express how the sickness wasn't a negative experience. Ultimately, it was an energetic upgrade, a recalibration of their energy that allowed them to really enjoy the rest. Listen in on how The Clarks used E.I.P. and the law of assumption to further expand their consciousness after catching such a virus.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks share their love for Black Love and how it has changed their lives.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss being realistic with your expectations in dating.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the importance of maintaining your masculine and feminine energy in a relationship.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks dive into the stories we tell about our partners and the importance of them.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks dive into the energetic and spiritual reason why couples fight about money.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the importance of having fun in life and relationships.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss being wrong in a relationship and how it can create innovation.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss why women need to know why, and the reason why most men don't.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the effects of getting stuck in the past and how at the end of the day, it's all about perspective.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the effects of ghosting and how ghosting people is harder on the people who do it.

Melanie and Anthony answer questions submitted by their amazing listeners.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks continue their discussion on cheating and dive into what the different forms of cheating are.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the 10 warning signs that you partner may be cheating.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss building a business with your partner and how it's beautiful but it's challenging just like everything else in life.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how the traditional relationship is evolving into a luxury relationship.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks teach us how to let go by using the E.A.R. process. Followed by an explanation on how this process can lead you to finding an ideal partner that you're compatible with.

The Amazing Clarks have a Quickie for you to send you into your weekend right!

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks teach us about the point scale system and how to be realistic about where you are in your life when it comes to picking a partner.

The Amazing Clarks have a Quickie for you to send you into your weekend right!

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks deep dive into maintaining your individuality while being in a relationship and how sometimes you need to get lost in love for yourself.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks teach us how to stop hating on love and how turning your love light on can save you and your future relationships.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks share the meaning behind trading gifts within your relationship and how these gifts can lead to a breakup or a makeup.

Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married with kids, the Amazing Clarks are here to give you all the advice you need to navigate this Valentine's Day.

In this episode, The Amazing Clarks share why compatibility is key and how ignoring it can lead to bad relationships.

Single ladies! The Amazing Clarks are here for you! Listen in for the tips and tricks necessary before you wade through the dating pool again.

The Amazing Clarks are back to talk about New Years resolutions. Is there a better way?

Anthony and Melanie share how their stay in Ghana changed their perspective on self, family, and community.

Anthony and Melanie share how their stay in Ghana changed their perspective on self, family, and community.

The holidays are fast approaching! The Amazing Clarks are ready to help you through every awkward or exhausting family gathering with tips and tricks that will make every experience manageable!

The Amazing Clarks talk about aging gracefully and how it shouldn't be such a common fear amongst people.

The Amazing Clarks explain how allowing yourself to receive what the universe has for you can bring you all the things you wanted.

Welcome back to the Love Revolution! How can appreciation not only help yourself and the relationships in your life? The Clarks talk about how giving appreciation to others will ultimately be returned back to you. Using appreciation in your everyday life can also bring you the energy that you've been trying to receive. Practicing appreciation mentally will help show up physically and help you start attracting what you've always wanted.

The Amazing Clarks explain what a life template is and how to find yours to live your most authentic life.

The Amazing Clarks have a fun life hack to help you maximize on the law of attraction!

The Amazing Clarks revisit The Law of Attraction to give more insight, tips and tricks to manifesting your best life.

The Amazing Clarks are back answering listeners questions!

Why do people cheat and is it a reflection on their partner? The Amazing Clarks share their personal experiences and what infidelity is a symptom of.

The Amazing Clarks discuss what exactly entanglement is and how you can utilize it to help facilitate your growth.

Melanie and Anthony talk about catharsis and explain how cathartic experiences can help your growth process.

Melanie and Anthony talk about navigating around your partners land mines and how these triggers can teach you about yourself and your partner.

Melanie and Anthony talk about how self care is a never ending process.

Melanie and Anthony talk about how beautiful the growth process can be with just a bit of patience and trust.

Melanie and Anthony talk about the possibilities of life and turning those possibilities into a reality.

Melanie and Anthony talk about the beauty of death and the many teachings of it.

Melanie and Anthony tell us about the Art of Manifesting and how it works.

The Amazing Clarks revisit a past pain of Anthony's that has been weighing heavy on him lately the loss of the twin boys he thought were his, and what they think of him today.

The Amazing Clarks breakdown just how we inherit sins from our parents and how it manifests in ourselves.

What moments do you value and how do they impact your life? This week the Amazing Clarks tell you all about the Memory Museum and explain how to make the most of your life.

Have you ever felt like something was off but you couldn't quite place it? Chances are you were out of alignment. In this followup episode, the Amazing Clarks explain how one's energy affects their alignment.

With Father's Day right around the corner, The Amazing Clarks are zooming in on the fatherhood experience. Anthony gets real about his experience being a stepfather and learning how to fit into a preexisting family dynamic, and how his parenting style quickly came to compliment Melanie's. Anthony also shares was it was like to be a Mr.Mom and how deciding to be a stay at home dad was one of the best decisions of his life.

What is energy and how can you harness it to use it to your advantage? Are there different kinds of energy? Anthony and Melanie not only break it down for you, they explain the effect energy has had in their lives and how they are constantly aware and working with it..

Have you ever had something happen to you that you thought just ruined your whole day? Maybe your babysitter unexpected cancelled on you? Or perhaps your car wouldn't start and you were late to work? Let's face it, unexpected setbacks always occur, but the Amazing Clarks are here to give you the best way to frame them. E.I.P Everything is Perfect. Maybe that cancelled babysitter gave you an amazing family night? Or that car trouble kept you out of accident? Melanie and Anthony are here to give you tips to help reframe your thinking so that you can understand that everything has its purpose.

CW gun violence, death. Welcome back to the Love Revolution! In this episode, Anthony takes us back to a pivotal moment in his life that changed everything. How does mental health and the survival instinct change a man? What can a person do to help move forward so they don't get stuck in their trauma. Anthony shares what worked for him, and the basic necessities for healing.

What are you willing to do for your partner? What preconceived notions of love are holding you back from the alignment in your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss what the Art of Allowing is and how it effects your relationship and how adjusting can be the absolute gamechanger.

Have you ever wondered what it takes to make a successful relationship? While there isn't one exact thing, The Amazing Clarks do know of one thing that you can't have a successful relationship without. That thing is being Relationship Active. In this episode Melanie and Anthony not only tell you what being Relationship Active is, but how to make it happen. Plus learn how to recognize when someone is being Relationship Inactive! Being Relationship Active isn't only for romantic relationships it is key for every relationship we find important in our lives!

Welcome back to the Love Revolution! With Mother's Day right around the corner, Melanie is deep in her mama feelings. Even though her kids are grown, she never stops parenting. But parenting grown ass adults is way different than raising babies. How do you keep parenting effectively as your kids grow up? Melanie and Anthony have all of the tips and tricks when it comes to transitioning to adult parenting and how to adjust your expectations of your children as they start living their own lives. Also if you're not caught up with This is Us watch out for the spoilers at the 829 1030 mark

Have you ever wondered why you seem to attract the things on your mind? Maybe you've tried the power of positive thinking without the results you were looking for. Well in this episode The Amazing Clarks get into the nitty gritty of the Law of Attraction. What is it? How do you use it? Listen as Melanie goes into how she first learned about the Law of Attraction and had a car repossessed in the process and how Anthony is always reminded about it, even when...walking the dog? If you've always wondered about how to harness the power of the Law of Attraction for yourself this episode is for you.

Melanie and Anthony give insight into the inner child. What is your inner child? Why are they important? What is the point in working on healing it?

The Amazing Clarks virtually sit down with Mickey D. A young lady who is trying to get back into the dating pool but is apprehensive as to where to start. Listen as the Clarks get to the bottom of her fear and help her find exactly what she needs to move forward. Plus, before the Clarks get into helping Mickey, Melanie has a bone to pick with Anthony uhoh!

Melanie and Anthony introduce their latest project Crack The Code The Secret To Achieving Your Happily Ever After. In addition to giving the tidbits of the book, the Clarks tell us why the started the project in the first place, how they hope it will be received, and the plan for their coaching going forward. Plus a lesson on why you must always push forward.

Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Today Melanie and Anthony talk sex! and how to make sex work the longer you're in a relationship. What does Melanie have to do in order to connect with Anthony? You definitely don't want to skip out on this technique that has helped them stay active in the bedroom. Plus! The Amazing Clarks break down their Top 5 exercise. How do your top 5 dominant thoughts effect your day to day life, and how does it effect how you might be interacting with your partner? Take a listen and find out.

Welcome back to the Love Revolution! Today, the Amazing Clarks break down their Love Report Card Ten dimensions of love that help guide how your partner is receiving various aspects of your relationship. Melanie and Anthony not only tell you what every dimension means, but score each other! What will each other's grade be?

Anthony and Melanie Clark, the husband and wife duo who have been passionately in love for nearly 30 years and rock stars of the life and relationship coaching world are giving insight into their early lives. Plus the story of how they met and changed the coaching game.

The Black Love Podcast Network presents The Amazing Clarks. A brand new podcast featuring life and relationship coaches Anthony and Melanie Clark.